In a culture driven by individual achievement, there's a quietly powerful call echoing from Scripture—a call to grow, guide, and be guided. I recently came across a profound phrase in a Bible reading plan:
“Pursue a Paul. Train a Timothy. Be mentored by a Mary. Prepare a Phoebe.”
At first glance, it sounds poetic. But the more I sat with it, the more I realized—it’s a roadmap for spiritual growth, leadership development, and legacy in the body of Christ.
🌱 Pursue a Paul: Seek Wisdom Upstream
The Apostle Paul was a mentor, theologian, and disciple-maker. To pursue a Paul is to recognize that we’re not meant to journey alone. We need a voice of experience to challenge our assumptions, inspire our faith, and speak truth into our blind spots.
Mentors like Paul don’t just share knowledge—they share their lives. And pursuing one is a mark of humility and hunger.
🕯️ Train a Timothy: Invest Downstream
Just as we receive, we’re called to pass it on. Paul poured his life into Timothy so that the gospel would outlive him. In the same way, training a Timothy means being intentional about mentoring someone younger in the faith.
It’s not about having all the answers—it’s about walking with someone, encouraging them, and preparing them to lead well beyond our own influence.
💠Be Mentored by a Mary: Sit at His Feet
In the Gospels, Mary of Bethany chose to sit at Jesus’ feet, listening and resting in His presence. To be mentored by a Mary is to learn the rhythm of worship, reflection, and attentiveness to God’s voice.
Whether it’s through a spiritual friend, a prayerful mother-figure, or a mentor with quiet strength, we need people who teach us how to be before we do.
🌺 Prepare a Phoebe: Empower the Next Generation
Phoebe was entrusted by Paul to carry his letter to the Romans. She was a leader, servant, and trusted messenger. Preparing a Phoebe is a call to raise up women—and men—who are ready to take the message farther, love deeper, and lead stronger.
It’s about lifting others into their calling, not just for church service, but for mission, leadership, and courage in every sphere of life.
🌿 The Full Circle
This is more than a catchy phrase—it’s a model of generational discipleship. One where wisdom flows freely across age, gender, and experience. One where nobody walks alone and everybody is both a learner and a leader.
So today I pause and ask:
Who is my Paul?
Who is my Timothy?
Who are the Marys shaping my inner world?
Who am I preparing like Phoebe?
This is the heart of spiritual community—not programs or platforms, but people pouring into people in the name of Jesus.

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